"The easiest way to forgive is to forget." This quote really touched a part in my heart. I actually don't know where to start. Earlier I thought this blog will be easy for me to finish because lately I've been giving advice to my friend, but now I realized it's hard to express myself and my own thoughts. Especially when I am about to talk about myself. I just thought of this a while ago, how can we remember something we already forgot? Well that is what I thought since it is said that the easiest way to forgive is to forget, so Ironic. That's why I'm thinking of what will I write here.
Then I realized that we really don't have to forget something just to be able to forgive someone. It's just the matter of accepting the fact that, that person did something wrong against us. It's about the matter of living with it and getting used to it. YOU have to learn how to go with the flow. Even though it will be hard and painful at first to forgive that person and forget those dreadful moments he had caused you. Forgiving someone doesn't mean that you are weak, it even shows that you are strong enough to accept that person even if he hurt you and you were able to give him second chance. In relation to the play if The Tempest, Prospero should have forgiven his brother already and should have chose not to take revenge on those people who betrayed him.
We have a kind and such a forgiving God. He sets as a good example to us. If God can forgive why can't we? Yes, we were hurt, but I do believe every person could do some mistake. But I also believe that everyone DESERVE a second chance BUT NOT for the SAME MISTAKE. If somethings are not meant for us we have to learn how to let go. If he really doesn't deserve you, all you have to so is to FORGIVE and ACCEPT, then LET GO. Don't let your past relationship ruin your present and may be a better relationship with that person.
Let's "Keep on moving forward".
[Blog 2.4- To forgive is to Forget]
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