Am I Special?

         

 Being special to a person is a big thing. Being treated as one by the one you also treat as a special someone is a bigger thing I think? So if it's about being special, everyone is, but not everyone feels that they are. That's the reason why some people tend to feel so lonely and feel like they are nobody, when in reality they are SOMEBODY. Before anything else, let us know what is the meaning of special? According to Mr. Merriam-Webster special is different from what is normal or usual, unusual in a good way, better or more important than others.  For me, based on my understanding of the word special, it is something to do with what you are, how unique you are, and how different you are to other people.

             Going back to the topic, am I special? For me, I consider myself as a special one, because I know that I am different to other people in a good way. Of course it's impossible to be completely the same as another person. There might be similarities but in totality, there will  always be the slightest difference. Even the identical twins  have differences. Generally, everyone is special in their own way, it's just that few are being noticed because of the standards that is set by people. There's another form of being special, specifically special to your family. Your family members consider you as one of the special persons in their life, because you are their family. Everyone treats their family special to them. Going to a higher and as a deeper meaning of special, let's talk about being a special someone, or treating someone special. Treating someone special is caused by the "SPECIAL" feelings you have for that "someone". That feelings may be LOVE, love which you feel for someone opposite of your gender and is not one of your family, that form of specialty is the one I don't have. There are also times that your friends are treating you special, something that they don't do to others but they are ready to do it for you because you are one of their friends. So as what I said, I consider myself, special, because there are some characteristics that you can find from me that is totally different from others. Attitude that I am the only one who possess. Yes, there is no one who consider me as their special one by means of that special feelings which is LOVE. Well at least there are still someone whom I know treats me special, and those are my friends and my family.

            If you feel like the one you treat as your someone special is not returning the favor of being special in a way that he/she feels something for you don't worry as what the lyrics says "There’s somebody out there who’s looking for you. Someday he’ll find you; I swear that it’s true. He’s gonna kiss you and you’ll feel the world standstill. There’s somebody out there who will. He’ll take you dancing and pull you in close, spin you around and won’t let you go till they turn the lights off and he’ll take you home. There’s somebody out there who will." Being special doesn't only mean that you have to be a somebody's someone special by means of the special feeling they have for you, it may also mean that you are different to others in a good way. Uniqueness is already enough for you to be considered as a special person. JUST BE YOURSELF AT ALL TIMES.

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